核家族化와 育兒

A Study on A Tendency to Nuclear Family and Child Rearing

  The resent trend in the field of infantry education have been giving undue value to examinations from the very begnning. A lack of proper home education has been the obstacle to the growth advancement of human beings.   To fling off the absurdity, this study tries to suggest the ideal form of home education.   First, to have children learn proper language of their mother tongue. Language is not only a means to communication, but also become the basis of the way of thinking, of feeling, and of behavior which become the process of learning a culture.   Second, to have them acquire a feeling which only responds to love. Children acquire the basis of love through the intrinsic experience with their mothers, then, upon this basis, magnify this love toward families, friends and others.   Third, to comprehend an authority by using reason. Through the intrinsic experience of an authority from their fathers, children learn to comprehend the authority of teachers and other people of above ages.   Fourth, to build up self-control. Children need to build up mental self-reliance to go though with any challenges by themselves.   Fifth, the basis of home education is not a technique but an example. Children should have a concret goal of an ideal human being and should be educated to adjust that goal.   Sixth, the logic of responsibility should be applied. Love is indispensable for child rearing. This also fall under the responsibility of both parents. Children should adapt themselves to social rules which are nesessary to become a grown up as a man.